ALL ABOUT LIFE BEYOND KINDERGARTEN! Kindergarten is the basic building block for all future learning. It is true that everything you need to know in life was really learned in Kindergarten. The trick is to remember what you learned when you were five or six. What you liked then will most likely be something you will like now. So be true to yourself and who you really are and who you will really be. Look back and you just may find your true self! Yes…this blog is about a variety of topics…because we are all a smorgasbord of thoughts and ideas.
It has taken me a long time to realize it…but, I am really quite short. I don’t feel short at all. For some reason, I feel tall and strong. I was truly the tallest child in sixth grade and I have never gotten over the power. By the seventh grade, I imagine that I lost my title fairly quickly.
To give up the title did not bother me at all. I had already developed the tall mentality…it was embedded in my personality. Perhaps, I have been around five year old children for so long that I think all grown ups are that size. However, just lately I have seen some pictures of myself that make me wonder…am I shrinking?
Besides the obviously improperly proportioned pictures are the following sad, but true situations:
1. It is virtually impossible for me to reach the two liter Cokes on the top shelf at the grocery store. I refuse to ask for help. I would rather do without or pay more for the carton of can drinks.
2. I cannot seem to reach the iron and pull it down from it’s holder on the back of the pantry door. If by chance, I am able to grab it…water pours on my head. I did not remember to drain the water. Who needs to steam iron these days anyway?
3. The ironing board from the same holder on the back of the pantry door. I just can’t talk about it. Impossible to reach.
4. Any books on the top shelf at the library or at Barnes & Noble are entirely out of my reach. I guess that I didn’t need to read them in the first place.
5. Jackets that are displayed at a department store (prime example-Macy’s) on a rod to hold the hangers and merchandise. There is no way that I can reach these. I rarely see a salesperson. Recently, I took the matter in my own hands and found one of those long rods with a hook on the end. I suppose they were made for the short clerks. As soon as I started to snare a jacket, two or three salespersons pounced towards me. Customers DO NOT use the long rod with the hook! Trouble!
6. The carton of Legos on the top shelf of the closet in my classroom are a non-reaching item. Or the box of books on the top shelf. Or the construction paper on the top shelf. And especially the floor puzzles. The floor puzzles are a disaster when I drop them as I teeter-totter on a small stool. I have lots of experience with this mess. This might have something to do with my retirement in June. No! Wait! It was really the testing. What is worse? A headache from boxes of puzzles falling on your head or a headache from giving a test to a five year old whirling dervish?
7. Any of the hooks placed on the wall in our laundry room…used for coats and various other items. My husband put them up…so sweet of him. I cannot reach any of them. He is 6’2′. Evidently, he also thinks that I am tall or that I can find a small ladder.
So there you have it…I have faced the truth. I am tooshort to reach anything. And all the things that I really need are on the top shelf. To top it all off…we were out to dinner with friends recently and were (of course) the last to arrive. When we walked into the restaurant, we found the table immediately. My wonderful and absolutely kind friend said, “Oh, you found us on your own! I told the hostess to look for a really tall man and a really short lady!”…well! I guess that the news is out…I am for sure really short. My reaching ability is definitely over!
I hate to inject my paranoia but if you are getting any shorter (I know this was probably a joke but I’m Autistic) there are some medical causes that should be treated. My grandmother lost between 3-5 inches.
Thank you so much for your comment! I really do think that I am shorter, but I have to doctors about it. I had a car accident 1 1/2 years ago and had a back injury. Most likely, I am not standing up straight enough. I am about to start more physical therapy! Good to hear from you!
I completely understand – the cousins I used to tower over now tower over me, my “little” brother it head and shoulders above me, my college roommate was 5’10″…and every time they tease me for being small, I just remind them, “Everyone goes all the way down to the ground. Oh, and I don’t bang my head on lighting fixtures.”
Ha! So funny! My husband hits his head on light fixtures! Last week, we went to dinner with my nephew & his family…his 10 year old daughter is almost taller than me! This growth spurt has happened in less than a month! She is catching up to her mom too!
Of course is does not really exist! I am certain that I have no dust on top of the refrigerator. Therefore, I have no need to climb on a stepstool and look. So no worries there! What about the piano and coffee table in the living room? That room is never really used. That dust does not exist, does it?
ha ha ha, it feels like I am reading my own story. I was the tallest in year six and was seated in the last row. each year i was moved one row forward and by year nine i was in the front row.
I hate to inject my paranoia but if you are getting any shorter (I know this was probably a joke but I’m Autistic) there are some medical causes that should be treated. My grandmother lost between 3-5 inches.
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Thank you so much for your comment! I really do think that I am shorter, but I have to doctors about it. I had a car accident 1 1/2 years ago and had a back injury. Most likely, I am not standing up straight enough. I am about to start more physical therapy! Good to hear from you!
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I completely understand – the cousins I used to tower over now tower over me, my “little” brother it head and shoulders above me, my college roommate was 5’10″…and every time they tease me for being small, I just remind them, “Everyone goes all the way down to the ground. Oh, and I don’t bang my head on lighting fixtures.”
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Ha! So funny! My husband hits his head on light fixtures! Last week, we went to dinner with my nephew & his family…his 10 year old daughter is almost taller than me! This growth spurt has happened in less than a month! She is catching up to her mom too!
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There is one consolation to being short……I cannot see the dust on the top of the refrigerator, therefore, does it really exist?
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Of course is does not really exist! I am certain that I have no dust on top of the refrigerator. Therefore, I have no need to climb on a stepstool and look. So no worries there! What about the piano and coffee table in the living room? That room is never really used. That dust does not exist, does it?
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My mom used to have a sign that said, “Please do not write in my dust.” I wish I could find one like it for my home.
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ha ha ha, it feels like I am reading my own story. I was the tallest in year six and was seated in the last row. each year i was moved one row forward and by year nine i was in the front row.
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So funny! I ended up on the front row during 7th grade and stayed on the front row…even in college!
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same, i was short even for a sri lankan
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Maybe I should live in Sri Lanka! In Texas, it seems like most everyone is tall…especially if they wear cowboy boots. Boots don’t help me at all!!
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ha ha ha, I wear boots and high heals but I am still short, but when I wear them I feel very tall, until my son’s stand next to me
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Oh…I know the feeling! Our daughter is 5’7″…when she wears heels…she really towers over me!!
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looks like i have found my twin
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